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Saturday, August 04, 2007
just random thots...

its realli hard to find a gd listener...well...maybe there is one...but he/she may not be the one hu u realli wanna talk to...n the one u wanna talk to jus dun realli care abt wat u say...probably cos of personality...the things u wan to talk abt is not wat he/she is interested in..so kind of a "conflict" there...a few scenarios are possible..

scenario 1 :
u think he/she dun wan to listen but actually he/she is ok wif listening?

scenario 2 :
u realli wanna talk abt it but he/she dun seem or is not interested? den u feel paiseh...

these 2 scenarios can be a 2-way thing...which..probably make things even worse if tats realli the case...so its better that the 2 of u dun talk? hmmz..maybe....would rather haf it tat way...

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In a situation when there is say… 2 pp involved…there will tend to be one hu is “more- shui bian” n one hu is “more-difficult”…I would think tat the one hu is more shui bian is more on the disadvantage..cos everything tat the “more-difficult” person say..the shui bian person will always reply “shui bian” n everything goes the way tat the “more-difficult” person wans…BUT..when it comes to the shui bian person asking a favour or wat…most of the time…he/she will nv be successful..cos the “more-difficult”..being more diffi..will not want to do as wat the “more-shui bian” person say...

I also dunno wat to say next…anyway tats wat im experiencing now…feels abit pek chek actually…anyway in this case…in most cases to be exact..im the “more-shui bian” person…is like…y cant u jus do as I say n not always I do wat u say?! Even though im more shui bian doesn’t mean I dun haf a temper lo seriously…ok..i shld try to switch to being more difficult next time..urgh..



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一望即逝的烟火
象征着我们
我喜欢的是青色还是红色
你有在乎吗?

因为有依赖
所以最伤心
听说你也难过
但你不曾挽留

你认为
叫我把棉被盖好
就是一种安慰
但你曾想过
你说完掉头就走
却是更残忍的伤害

相信我
忘记也许更容易
其实并没有讨厌
不能怪你的无助
你知道吗?

希望以后再遇见
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曾经以为
一切都不会改变
怎么说散就散
一点预兆都不给

是因为他吗
还是我没搞清楚
你怎会说走就走
连一句话也没留

是我太慢太傻
还是有些事根本不必说
是无所不谈吗
怎么会差了你我

是你太傻太慢
还是根本没想过
所以就算无所不谈
还是缺了你我

如果有一天
你突然想起我
请记得
我曾经给过你微笑